第21章 不要讓教訓再次重複 (7)(2 / 3)

After all, the world is full of amazing discoveries, things you can' t even imagine now. There are delicious, happy sniffs and scrumptious snacks to share. Hey, you might end up fabulously rich or even become a huge superstar (one day). Sounds good, doesn' t it? But wait, there' s more!There are handstands, and games to play and yoga and karaoke and wild, crazy, bohemian dancing. But best of all, there' s romance. Which means long dreamy stares, whispering sweet nothings, cuddles, smooches, more smooches and even more smooches, a frisky love bite or two, and then, well, anything goes. So how can you find that blissful "just sliding into a hot bubble bath" kind of feeling? It' s easy.

First, stop slinking away from all those nagging issues. It' s time to face the music. Now just relax. Take some deep breaths (in through the nose and out through the mouth). Try to meditate if you can. Or go for a walk to clear your head. Accept the fact that you' ll have to let go of some emotional baggage. Try seeing things from a different perspective. Maybe you' re actually the one at fault. If that' s the case, be big enough to say you' re sorry (it is never too late to do this). If someone else is doing the wrong thing, stand up and say, "That' s not right and I won' t stand for it!" It' s OK to be forceful. (It' s really okay to blow raspberries). Be proud of who you are, but don' t lose the ability to laugh at yourself. (This is a lot easier when you associate with positive people.) Live every day as gift were your last, because one day it will be. Don' t be afraid to bite off more than you can chew. Take big risks. Never hang back. Get out there and go for it. After all, isn' t that what life is all about?