同樣，被愛者也可以是任何類型的人，即使是最怪異的人也可能被人深愛著。步履蹣跚的曾祖父可能依舊愛著一個20年前在街頭見到的陌生女孩；牧師可能會愛上一個風塵女子。被愛者可能是背信棄義、油嘴滑舌之輩，或是染上很多惡習的人。當然，像其他人一樣，施愛者同樣也清楚地看到這些——但是，這絲毫不會影響他的愛意。一個最為普通的人也有可能成為一個瘋狂、放縱、奢華、色彩斑斕的被愛的對象，就像沼澤地裏的毒百合一樣；一個善良的人可能也會有一場粗暴而低劣的愛；語無倫次的瘋子也可能會給某人帶去溫柔而淳樸的浪漫情愛。因此，愛的價值及其品質取決於施愛者自身。
正因為如此，在愛與被愛之間，很多人寧願選擇前者，而不是後者。當然，人人都想成為施愛者，原因很簡單，人們隱隱地感到，被愛的狀態對於許多人來說都是無法忍受的。被愛者總是對施愛者充滿恐懼和憎恨，這是有其充分的理由的。因為，施愛者總是試圖使被愛者一無所有，他總是企盼能與被愛者建立一種可能的關係，盡管這種企盼與努力隻會帶給他痛苦。
Listen To Your Inner Voice 傾聽你的心聲
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It’s there inside you.Very much，since you were brought into this world.When you could’t open your mouth till the first two years on planet earth，inner voice is the one through which you interpreted and understood things.
Inner voice is the voice mouth of the subconscious mind.The subconscious mind is always acting as a secondary reflector of thoughts and ideas in the body.It justifies and rationalizes what is right and what is wrong.When we go against what the inner voice says we get a guilty conscious and are bothered by it throughout our lives.
At times when we are feeling low or those unforgettable moments when we are let down，we seem to need some kind of emotional or mental support.We usually speak to our closest pal or our dearest family member during times of distress to ease the burden.At such times we get over the initial drizzle of emotional anxiety and mental restlessness.Because ofthe pepping up by our empathic listener.We suddenly feel rejuvenated because our inner voice alerts us get on with things and leave the things of the past on the memory books of our brain.
The inner voice is always right most of the times because it knows us better than others and probably even ourselves.It is the dare devil child of the intuition which we have been having since childhood.It’s good to go by intuitions most of the times because it’s the response provided due to the synchronism between out mental and physical being.