Many people have such a dislike for any mental privacy that they pass their lives in public, or surrounded only by sporting trophies and games.Some enjoy living in their pantries, composing for themselves succulent dishes, and interested in the doings of the servants, their companions.Others have turned their salons into nurseries, or feel a predilection for the stable and the dog-kennels.Such people soon weary of their surroundings, and move constantly, destroying, when they leave old quarters, all the objects they had collected.
The men and women who have thus curtailed their belongings are, however, quite contented with themselves.No doubts ever harass them as to the commodity or appropriateness of their lodgements and look with pity and contempt on friends who remain faithful to old habitations.The drawback to a migratory existence, however, is the fact that, as a French saying has put it, CEUX QUI SE REFUSENTLES PENSEES SERIEUSES TOMBENT DANS LES IDEES NOIRES.These people are surprised to find as the years go by that the futile amusements to which they have devoted themselves do not fill to their satisfaction all the hours of a lifetime.Having provided no books nor learned to practise any art, the time hangs heavily on their hands.They dare not look forward into the future, so blank and cheerless does it appear.The past is even more distasteful to them.So, to fill the void in their hearts, they hurry out into the crowd as a refuge from their own thoughts.
Happy those who care to revisit old abodes, childhood's remote wing, and the moonlit porches where they knew the rapture of a first-love whisper.Who can enter the chapel where their dead lie, and feel no blush of self-reproach, nor burning consciousness of broken faith nor wasted opportunities? The new year will bring to them as near an approach to perfect happiness as can be attained in life's journey.The fortunate mortals are rare who can, without a heartache or regret, pass through their disused and abandoned dwellings; who dare to open every door and enter all the silent rooms; who do not hurry shudderingly by some obscure corners, and return with a sigh of relief to the cheerful sunlight and murmurs of the present.