Helmer.What do you mean by serious?
Nora.In all these eight years--longer than that--from the very beginning of our acquaintance,we have never exchanged a word on any serious subject.
Helmer.Was it likely that I would be continually and forever telling you about worries that you could not help me to bear?
Nora.I am not speaking about business matters.I say that we have never sat down in earnest together to try and get at the bottom of anything.
Helmer.But,dearest Nora,would it have been any good to you?
Nora.That is just it;you have never understood me.I have been greatly wronged,Torvald--first by papa and then by you.
Helmer.What!By us two--by us two,who have loved you better than anyone else in the world?
Nora (shaking her head).You have never loved me.You have only thought it pleasant to be in love with me.
Helmer.Nora,what do I hear you saying?
Nora.It is perfectly true,Torvald.When I was at home with papa,he told me his opinion about everything,and so Ihad the same opinions;and if I differed from him Iconcealed the fact,because he would not have liked it.
He called me his doll-child,and he played with me just as I used to play with my dolls.And when I came to live with you--Helmer.What sort of an expression is that to use about our marriage?
Nora (undisturbed).I mean that I was simply transferred from papa's hands into yours.You arranged everything according to your own taste,and so I got the same tastes as your else Ipretended to,I am really not quite sure which--I think sometimes the one and sometimes the other.When I look back on it,it seems to me as if I had been living here like a poor woman--just from hand to mouth.I have existed merely to perform tricks for you,Torvald.But you would have it so.You and papa have committed a great sin against me.
It is your fault that I have made nothing of my life.
Helmer.How unreasonable and how ungrateful you are,Nora!Have you not been happy here?
Nora.No,I have never been happy.I thought I was,but it has never really been so.