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第一，雞娃到底有沒有用？
第二，被雞的娃真正獨立生活之後，會遇到什麼問題？
今天這篇文章，我站在四十三歲，回憶我媽雞我的方式和時光，以切身體會聊聊，長大後的娃究竟痛苦多，還是收獲多。
一種行為的好壞，隻有隔著足夠長的時間去看，或許才有相對公允的答案。