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新學年開始,大家都升級了也開始全新的學習生活——是時候整理一下人際關係。你是否仍有上學年遺留下來的裂痕尚未修補?你想與新同學打成一片、好好相處嗎?以下小提示能為大家帶來幫助。
Be Left Out or Make Friends?
It’s hard when a best friend isn’t around maybe because you have moved to a different school or a different class, or maybe you’re just home sick for the day. Recess or lunchtime can feel lonely without friends around. Will it ever feel the same? You want to have new friends, but how do you make them? Maybe it seems like everybody else already has their friends. But remember, there’s always room for more friends.
Start by looking around your classroom think about which kids you’d like to play with at recess. Look for chances to say hi to them, smile, and be friendly. Offer to share something or give a compliment. Invite someone to play with you or say, “Do you want to sit here?” in the lunchroom. When you’re at recess, walk over to kids you want to play with, act friendly, and say, “Hi, can I play, too?” or just join in.
If you have trouble doing this or if you’re feeling shy, ask your teacher to help you make new friends. Teachers are usually pretty good at matching up friends. The best way to make friends is to be a friend. Be kind, be friendly, share, say positive things, offer to help and pretty soon, you’ll have one, or two, or even more new friends.
You might still miss that special best friend. But when you see each other, you can share something you didn’t have before she left: you can introduce her to your new friends!
How to Get Along with People
Then comes the question: How do you start? How do you get along with people?
Harsh truth of life you can’t please everybody. But since people are social creatures (unless you’re a total scrooge), you just have to learn how to get along. Most of these tips are common sense. Still, we lapse in following them. So take these tips as reminders on how to get along with people.
Here are 5 Dos to help you get along with people:
Greet people
Smile. Greet people a good day (or whatever time of day it is). It doesn’t do people harm. It also gives people the impression that you’re open and approachable.
Share
Be it some mints in your pocket or a bag of chips, ask if people would like some,followed by a handing gesture.