21.Isacivilunionthesamethingasamarriage?
Whileacivilunioncanprovideessentiallegalprotectionforgaysandlesbians,itisnotthesamethingasmarriage.Eventhoughacivilunionmightoffergayandlesbiancouplessimilarbenefits,marriagecarriesastatusasaninstitutionthroughoutworldhistorythataciviluniondoesnot.Toallowgaysandlesbianstoenterintocivilunionsordomesticpartnerships,whilerestrictingthemfrommarriageisnot“equal”inthesensethatthewordisusuallyusedunderthelaw.Somehavearguedthatrestrictinggaysandlesbianstocivilunionswouldstigmatizetheirrelationshipsaslessimportantthatheterosexualrelationships.ThisfactorwasimportanttotheMassachusettsSupremeCourtindeterminingthatabanongaymarriageviolatedtheequalprotectionclauseoftheMassachusettsConstitution.Inordertomaintainequality,itisimportantforbothheterosexualandhomosexualcouplestobeabletoenterintomarriages,civilunions,anddomesticpartnershipswithoutsexualorientation-basedrestrictions.
22.Dogayparentsmakegaychildren?
Exposuretohomosexualityatayoungagedoesnotmeanthatachildwillbecomegay.
Also,studieshaveshownthatthechildrenofsame-sexcouplesarenotmorelikelytoidentifyasgaylaterinlifethanchildrenofheterosexualcouples.Finally,despitesomeevidenceforgeneticcausesofhomosexuality,thereisnoevidencetosuggestthatthesexualorientationofbiologicalparentwillnecessarilybepasseddowntothechild.
23.Shouldgaysbeallowedtoadoptchildren?
Manypeopleallovertheworldbelievethathomosexualscanandshouldbeallowedtoadoptchildren.AllofthecountriesinEurope,Canada,andsomestatesintheUnitedStatespermithomosexualstoadoptchildren,andtherearemillionsofchildrenthroughouttheworldwhoarebeingraisedbygayparents.Placesthatdonotallowgaymenandwomentoadoptwilloftenallowthemtobecomefosterparentsortemporaryguardiansofchildrenbeforetheyareadoptedbyanotherfamily.